Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Goose Egg Continues

The feeling of terrible mom continues yet another day. I don't remember where exactly I left off with Melanie's falling incident this weekend. She acted fine on Saturday, a little sleepy, but still naughty. Sunday morning she cried around 5am, and like any other good mom....I let her cry. When I got her out of the bed at 8 it was very evident from the smell that she had gotten sick. So she stayed home from church and took a morning nap and an afternoon nap. She acted ok, just sleepy. Monday she was great. Her normal little pain in the pa-tooty. Today (Tuesday), we went to Big Rapids to help a friend set up her 1st grade classroom (if you call three children 5 and under 'help'). The day was uneventful, Melanie was a little bit of stinker, but also seemed tired again. We left with all intentions of Mel napping on the way home. She had a different idea. She thought crying for a long time and then throwing up at the half-way point would be really fun. Being the 'great' mother again, it took me a good 15 min to figure out what that smell was. I thought it was one of Mel's super nasty diapers but that just didn't seem right. Then I started looking at the vehicles we were traveling with on the road thinking we were following a rendering truck or something of the sort. Finally realized Melanie had puked at which point I had to do a couple sympathy dry heaves out the window. A good mom would pull-over and clean her up, put on the extra outfit folded in the diaper bag, right? Not this mommy. We notched up the cruise two more mph and busted for home with the windows down. After all, we ONLY had another 30min or so and she wasn't crying anymore.

As I was pulling Melanie out of the bath, I started wondering if these puking incidents were related to her fall from Friday. She didn't act like she was sick so I called Dr. G even though the goal was to go a WHOLE 6 months without seeing him. FAILED!! They wanted to see her just to make sure. Dr. G checked her out and just wasn't comfortable sending her home for the night. He wanted a head CT to make sure there wasn't something going on inside that tiny little head of hers. We are so thankful for a Dr. that treats our kids just like he would his own. We love Dr. G and his staff~maybe that's why we can't stay out of their office. Anyways, due to insurance and timing issues we had the joy of getting her head CT through the ER. Yuppers, Melanie got to be checked over AGAIN before they ordered her CT. By this time it was around 7 and the poor thing had her last meal at 11:30. She was not the happiest kid. I forgot to mention I had used the last diaper at the Dr.s office and didn't pack a bottle (Dr. G gave us some diapers just in case they were needed, but didn't want her to eat in case she had to be sedated). My sister came to take Miya and Jayden home for some supper and my dad stayed to help entertain Mel (Jeff was 45min from Chicago).

The event of the CT scan went okay. Melanie's cry is getting louder and she may have nightmares of a man with a large rubber glove. She acted like any hungry, 18month old would act. We then waited an hour for the results (through a shift change I think). God has once again blessed our family with health. They said Melanie looked just fine. Nothing in her head came back abnormal....NOTHING, which also means that little area of white matter on the movement part of her brain when she was born was not found!!! Dr. G didn't think anything would be found, but wanted to cover the bases. So glad he did, now we'll be able to sleep in peace tonight, thanking God for his mercies.

Melanie finally ate supper at 8:30, she wasn't too hungry since Papa was able to find her a bag of cookies in a vending machine. She did enjoy the chocolate malt Aunt Wendi made though. By the way, she now weighs 22lbs and 8oz's.Yaayy!! She officially graduated out of her infant seat today (mostly because it was in the wash and we needed to get to the Doctor's office).

I think it's time for bed!! Maybe tomorrow we'll just stick around the house. . . maybe.

4 comments:

Marcy Yonker said...

Oh my stars!!! That is about all I can say! And...you are not a bad mom, we have all done the exact same things as you did and would probably do them again, right? We just do our best! God continues to look out for them and will take care of them! Poor little Melanie was not feeling very well though! Did they say she had the flu and that was why she was puking? Hope all is very calm at your house!

Jeff and Nicki Westra said...

They didn't really say a lot about the puking. She does have a rash that Dr. G thinks is just a viral thing and will go away in a couple weeks. She gets these rashes more often. The ER did say her CT showed really inflamed sinuses, so the puking could be from swallowing her flem I suppose. No fevers and she acts normal for the most part so we'll keep doing our normal things. Unless she pukes again....then maybe she'll have to travel to China with Aunt Wendi :0)

Glenda said...

Are you kidding me?!?!? There is never a lack of excitement around your house!! You are too funny....and you're not a bad mom!! :) ....and I wish I was one of the cars you went cruising by with the windows open dry heaving out the window!! haha! So glad you can laugh about it and your sweet little pain in the patooty is ok!! Don't send her to China...just UPS her out here to Iowa!! We would love to keep her for awhile!!! ;) Well I hope you have a super boring uneventful day at home today!! Take care! We miss you all like crazy!!!!!

Brenda said...

Oh Nicki! I am so sorry for the bad advice I gave on Sunday! I really wouldn't have worried about it either until she started puking... Bugger. To make you feel better, by the time I took both Joey and Megan in this summer - one month apart for pneumonia - both doctors looked at me like they thought I should be incarcerated for child neglect! They both made comments about how sick my kids were, even when I had just said they weren't wheezey or anything. I think the Dr. Megan saw at Urgent Care said, "Oh wow! She is a mess in there!" Yes, two kids to one - I think I will win bad mom of the year, hands down! Plus there was the 4T boxers I was having my 11 year old wear this spring... Plus... Sorry, I think I have this one in the bag.
Great news about Mel's CT though! (Not the inflamed sinuses - poor baby!)Both long and short term! Wahoo! See, being stubborn can be a good thing... =)
take care,
Brenda