Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Surgery Tomorrow

So here is a quick update on little Melanie. After much deliberation, the Dr.s and the Surgeon have decided Melanie's week lung is strong enough for her to have the PDA litigation (we call it heart surgery). The surgery is scheduled for 9:30 tomorrow morning. As of yesterday the surgeon wasn't content with doing the surgery. This morning after many x-rays from different angles they have decided her week lung is ready and her heart is in need of being fixed. This poses a little unrest for mom (and dad too I'm sure). How can that much change in her lung from one day to the next??? Are they just wanting to get this over with or can she really handle it?? These are a few of the questions I have been struggling with today while holding Melanie's feet at her bedside. Taking the advice of Rev. VanOverLoop and the words of Psalm 46...be still and know that I'm God...I was still and listened (as much as can be done above constant beeps and buzzers). The conclusion...the Dr.s and surgeons have Melanie's health as their number one priority. They are not going to do a procedure that they feel she's not healthy enough for. They are going to take care of her as best as they can. They are the ones with the degrees and the experience and they know what she can and can't handle. I do not. I need to trust...trust in God. I need to have faith that whatever happens tomorrow is all in God's perfect plan for Melanie's life and her future. He is the One guiding the Dr.s decisions. He is the one that will be guiding the surgeon's hands tomorrow morning. He is the one that has already decided how tomorrow's surgery will go. I will trust in Him and Him alone! Easier said then done, yes, but our only comfort in times of trial.

Here are a couple pictures of Melanie chilling on her tummy.

Melanie enjoys keeping her hands by her face...especially hanging onto her feeding tube, which is a "no-no"!

13 comments:

Jodi said...

Nicki
Very sweet pics, looks like little Melanie is growing. We will be praying for you, Jeff and Melanie tomorrow, especially the Dr.'s to give them the guidence they need for the surgery.

Jodi

Anonymous said...

I will be thinking of you and praying for Melanie tomorrow.

Jane

Jeanine said...

I love the pictures of Melanie! She looks bigger:) We are keeping you all in our prayers as tomorrow little Melanie will be having surgery.
Jared & Jeanine

Anna Van Den Top said...

The pictures look great! She looks so cute laying there are on her tummy. We will be thinking and praying for you guys tomorrow. Hang in there!

Unknown said...

I LOVE the picture of her on her tummy that is so cute!!! We will be praying for you tomorrow (as always) as she undergoes this surgery. Thinking of you
Kevin and Leesa

Anonymous said...

hope all goes well tomorrow! we will remember you, melanie, and the dr's in our prayers.
erin drnek

Anonymous said...

I will be thinking about little Melanie, your family, and the doctors tomorrow. What a comfort knowing its all in God's hands! She is absolutely beautiful!
Jodi Beintema

Anonymous said...

Jeff and Nicki

Praying all goes well tomorrow morning. Will be thinking of you and praying for you and little Melanie.

Bern and Marcia TB

Brenda said...

Pray without ceasing, huh? It seems that is all we can do. And have faith. What a blessing that more does not rest on us... Joey prayed so sweetly for you guys and baby Melanie last night that everyone was quiet for a a few extra seconds after he finished! In the words of a 9 year old, give us all strength to remember that only God knows what is best, and He will bring it to pass.
Love and lots of prayers today!
the Pastoors

Anonymous said...

Hey Jeff and Nicki,
Please know that everyone is in our prayers this morning - Little Melanie, her mommy and daddy, sisters, extended family and of course, the Dr's and those assisting. I hope you can feel our hugs that I am sending your way!! We love you.

Randy and Renee

Lindy said...

Westras, The Lord is with you today and always. We`re thinking and praying for you and Melanie. " Trust in Him at all times: ye people, pour out your heart before Him: God is a refuge for us. " Psalm 62:8 Love, Randy & Lindy Looyenga

Anonymous said...

I just checked your blog and at this time Melanie is just starting her surgery. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May you have peace while they perform the surgery, may the Lord lead the hands of all the Doctors. Many prayers are being said for you all this morning and daily. The pictures of little Melanie are so cute, it looks like she is growing and changing some. What a blessing it is to have Doctors, and nuses who are always looking out for the best interest of our children and yet help to ease the stress for the parents. May you have a very blessed Thanksgiving.
Love-Mike and Nikki Holstege and Family

Lori Ellerbroek said...

Just checked the blog and see that surgery is probably already started. Please know that there are many, many people praying for God's guiding hand today for Melanie and the family and for the staff at the hospital. May God wrap His gentle, loving arms around you all especially today.

Lori Ellerbroek